I have a sweet friend who has a moral compass that points in the direction of ‘Let me help; let me do what I can to make things better.’  And unlike my DirecTV dish that needs adjustment from time to time, her coordinates remain consistent. Recently, I was in a bit of a bind and needed help and she jumped in to help me without giving it a second thought. But that’s a story for another day, and one I definitely plan to share.

Just a few days ago, she shared this story via her Facebook page and later we had the opportunity to discuss it. She’d had the opportunity to help some young girls stopped on the side of the road. As we talked through the situation, it opened up several questions in my mind as it had hers. As it unfolded, I found it to be an inspiration for the small acts challenge this week. I was going to sum it up for you but I think it might be more engaging to share it in her words rather than mine. So, with her permission and without any further ado:

girl-pushes-car“So I was coming off an exit on GA400, and saw that two young teenage girls had spun their car into the mud off the side of the road and were trying to push their car up the little slope and back onto the road. Having driven a Honda Civic around Alaska for a few years, I am pretty good at getting cars out of situations they shouldn’t be in. So, I of course pulled over to help. I tell the girl who owns the car to get in and put the car in a low gear, and she has no idea what I’m talking about. So I show her, and after a conversation where she doubted my knowledge, she finally did as I said. I told her to ease onto the gas-don’t try to floor it – just ease it into moving while the other girl and I pushed from behind. After just two minutes, they were back on the road and on their way. The poor girls had been struggling for a while and I couldn’t believe that no one else had stopped to help them yet. It only took a moment of my day to help. They had the biggest smiles on their faces as I pulled away, and you know what? So did I. It was completely worth it. And given the opportunity, I wouldn’t hesitate to do it again!”

And you know what? I absolutely believe that she would stop again and help without any hesitation!

As she shared her story with me, I couldn’t help but wonder, just as she had:  how many people had simply passed by these girls without giving it a second thought to help them? How many people missed the opportunity to add a little goodness to their day? How about you? Would you have passed them by without giving it a thought or even a second thought?Do-the-right-thing-Be-Different

This week, let’s pay closer attention to what’s going on around us. Is there a situation where you might lend a helping hand? It just takes a couple of minutes – so what will you do?

Let’s end with a paraphrased quote from Bob Goff: Is it time we really lack or is it compassion?

You decide.

 

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I wrote this post over the weekend prior to the Boston Marathon, and I decided to hold off last week for a variety of reasons. However, as I began to think about it, I still feel it’s relevant and confirming. The events in our lives – all our lives for that matter – do happen in an Instagram of a moment. And the fact is that Instagram photos were part of the portfolio of photos that were reviewed and key in narrowing down and confirming the suspects. All of this highlighted how strongly I believe it’s important that we remember to lean in to our family and friends. In the end, I feel like it’s a blessing and we will be so glad we did!

Recently, I received the news from my veterinarian that one of my dogs, Keely, has cancer in his nasal cavity. At best, we have 3 more months together and we are already 1 month in. When the news was first shared with me, I think I went into shock. Over time, as it has begun to sink in, it’s been tough to say the least.

Keely_3 weeksKeely and I found each other a little over 10 years ago – in upstate New York – when I was living far from home. He was a rescue and was less than four weeks old; when his litter was dumped at the humane society, the word was that the pups were eight weeks old. His first weeks with me were tough for him and me.

At that time, Keely weighed 2.4 pounds. He was so tiny, and there were times when I would put him in my purse and take him places because I didn’t want to leave him alone.  In the first week, I took him to my vet to have him checked out and he identified several issues. The most concerning was exactly that – Keely was only 2.4 pounds and for his breed mix, it was quite concerning.  So, until we broke double-digit numbers, we had a weekly appointment for weighing and a once over. The day we hit 10 pounds was a big day – and a huge relief! However, the vet was still concerned and wanted to see us again in two weeks to be sure Keely’s weight continued to improve.

Over the course of the next two weeks, Keely had good days and bad. During our next visit, I’ll never forget what the vet said to me: “This is a very sick dog! And if this dog lives he will not be more than 30 pounds. Watch him closely.” Well, here we are ten years later and he has not had any health challenges…until now. And he’s closer to 90 pounds than he is to 30! Keely on the run

It has taken a little bit of time for all of this to register with me that we have some very tough days ahead of us. I received a call from puppy camp a little over a week ago that that Keely did not seem to want to participate in the second half of camp. He was okay, but just seemed really tired and acted like he’d rather just stay and hang out in his suite. However, when I arrived at camp to get him and his brother, he was fine – just very tired. When we got home, he ate all of his dinner and we had no issues. I breathed a sigh of relief, but watched him vigilantly…ok, I confess, I had him curl up on the couch next to me.

Today, I want to remind you that our lives are short – things can change in an Instagram of a moment.  An Instagram – it happens in a flash, but leaves us with a picture. And that’s the way it happens for us in our lives – things happen in an Instagram of a moment, but we carry the pictures forever in our hearts.

How about we make our act of random kindness this week for those closest to us?  What’s your Instagram going to be?

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