Here’s another chapter in my kind and generous series. This story, simply, is about one of my dearest friends who’s been more than kind and generous to me. A simple thank you doesn’t in any way, shape or form convey how grateful and blessed I am for her. And so, without any further ado or intro, here we go!

I was out to dinner with one of my dearest friends, Meredith, and mentioned to her that I was kicking about the idea of moving, and before I could get any further, she jumped in with a ‘yes you should!’ I then started to say how tough it would be. Again she jumped in with three words. ‘We got this!’

My first thought was – really? I’ve lived there a long time; there’s a lot of just ‘stuff’ and even quite a bit of cleaning that would need to be done before I could officially say ‘I’m out.’ However from that moment on, she became a constant source of encouragement and reminder – and even more on the days when I felt like it would just be too much. Always those three words: ‘We got this!’

We thenwe got this spent more than a few Saturdays going through just about everything I have. She was careful when I was going through things not to push me about what to keep, what to throw away, what to donate or offer to our friends. Every one of those Saturdays, from early in the am to late in the afternoon, it was pack, toss, donate or share.

And more than just helping me pack up, she offered to help me move in to my new place! She and I have a long history and lots of shared stories, giggles, tears and just plain fun, so it was even more fantastic that she was willing to take this on with me.

During the course of that time, I had some good days where I could see the end – and some bad days – a couple in particular – where candidly, I felt overwhelmed and just wasn’t sure we could get through it all. Through every minute, Meredith kept reminding me ‘We got this!’ Ya know, it’s one thing to get everything done but there’s quite a bit of extra cleaning that needs to happen for the next person/persons/family starting a new chapter here…and always those three words from Meredith…’We got this!’ She never let me for even a second believe anything else.

During all of these Saturdays, Meredith came ready to do what needed to be done. Often she came with the plan. On every one of these days, she showed up just happy to help. She gave up so much of her time; helping me was keeping her from spending time with her family and pups. She never once complained; she always came almost excited to help with this huge undertaking, and she would always remind me: ‘We got this.’

So here we are, just a few weeks out and here I am, settling into my new place – and there is no way in heck I’d be in this new place without Meredith. Oh, my dear sweet friend. There’s no way I can thank her enough! She is a person I’m just blessed to have in my tribe – someone without whose kindness and generosity I wouldn’t be starting a new chapter. So, yes my dear friend – We did it!

These are just six words that have me starting a new chapter – one that I’m excited to begin, and see what it brings. Six words that just might encourage you to start a new chapter as well:

‘We got this!’

‘We did it!’

Oh, yes, and just three more….Thank you Meredith!










Over the course of the last couple of years, I have received so many telemarketing calls – and over a variety of things.

The majority of these calls I’ve let go to voicemail, and of course they didn’t leave a message. But in a few instances…a few too many… I’ve answered. The numbers have been close to numbers I know or that I feel like I should know. For instance, yesterday the number that came through was an Alpharetta number, and close to that of a couple of places I know. So, I answered…big mistake.  (It’s interesting that, every time these calls come through, they are not from the same number). 

Last week when I answered one of the calls and said “hello”, the caller on the other end asked me if I was pleased with my home security. I’d received a call just like this a couple of weeks ago. So I kindly reminded them that I’d asked them to take me off of their list the last time they called. At that point, the person on the other end hung up on me. However, as they’ve proven, they are not going to take me off their list. So rather than just hang up on me, couldn’t he have been a little kinder? How about just a simple good-bye, or thank you, or “how about until next week when we will call again with another caller id that will make you think you should answer our call”?


Yesterday I received a call and the girl on the other end asked me if I am happy with my healthcare. I quickly responded with:

“I’ve asked you several times to take me off of your list.”

And she responded:

“I’m just calling to see if you your healthcare is affordable.”

Once again I asked her to stop calling me and to put me on her do not call list.

Instead of hanging up on me, she responded as if she was irritated by my response. Seriously – she’s irritated? Let’s talk about irritated! If she’s so irritated with my response, than maybe she should reach out to someone else who’s asked to be taken off their list!

And it continued – she was then quick to let me know, and I quote: “all I am trying to do is to find out if your healthcare is affordable.” Right, like I’m going to believe that! Do you believe that? I responded to her concern for me by just asking yet again to be taken off of her list.

Now just minutes ago I received a call and the caller id was similar to one of the numbers that Rainier’s puppy camp calls me from. And as Rainier is at camp today, I wanted to answer promptly. If anything was going on with him, of course I wanted to know ASAP. If he needed anything, I wanted to get going and get him. So of course I answered, and thinking it was camp, I said: “Hey there!” At that point there was tiny bit of hesitation before the person on the other end asked – and, yep you guessed it! Maybe her slight hesitation was related to the way I’d responded as opposed to a plain hello.

Anyway after the hesitation she began her script.

“Do you have affordable healthcare?” Geesh, when will it end?

So rather than beginning my script to let her know I’d asked to be taken off her list and to stop calling me, I thought it might be better for me and for her if I responded differently than I had in previous calls. So I responded with: “Hey, I’m glad you called! Is your healthcare affordable are you happy with it?”

There was just a bit of hesitation and she quickly let me know that her insurance is affordable and that she is happy with it. Now, that’s good to know isn’t it?

So in an effort to end our exchange promptly I responded with: “okay, goodbye.” And then I hung up. As I was hanging up, I could hear her trying to get back into her script and talking very fast. But you know…I now knew that her healthcare was affordable and most importantly that she is happy with it, so I just didn’t see any reason to take up any more of her time. And now with any luck at all, she will take herself off of my list!



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